Steve Harvey says in describing what he desires to achieve with his book "Act Like A Lady,Think Like A Man","....with this book,you (ladies)can get into a man's mind set and understand him better, so that you can put into play your plans,your dreams,and your desires,and best of all,you can figure out if he's planning to be with you or just playing with you."(p.7) Sounds to me like a lot to expect from one book-but its a start. Have you read the book? What are your thoughts?